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Jurnal Debbie Cousins, 24 Feb 24

Things have improved since I last posted. My daughter agreed to sit down and talk with us about renegotiating the contract. We had the Eviction Notice in an envelope, ready to give to her if she would not agree to our terms. I conducted the meeting differently this time. Instead of just giving her the 2-page agreement, I cut it so that each numbered item was on a separate piece of paper, and we gave them to her one at a time, starting with the things that I knew wouldn't be an issue for her. When we got to the boyfriend staying, she asked if he could come over at 7am instead of 8, because his mother can drop him off on her way to work. We conceded on that. Then, she asked if he could stay until midnight, because her curfew was later than that when she was 17. We would not consent to that, but we did extend it until 11pm. Ultimately, she ended up signing the contract and initialing every item, indicating that she will comply with them.

Since the meeting, things have been going much better around here. She agreed to the new term that she would attend Family Counseling with us twice a month. Our first meeting with the counselor via telehealth is next Friday. Praying that goes well. I will continue to also go to individual therapy twice a month.

Eating is still out of control. I'm still drinking a dozen cans of Diet soda a day, but they are now caffeine-free A&W Root Beer. My weight is almost up to 200 pounds! Stress is still a major factor. Things have only been settled down for less than 48 hours, and during that time, I also dropped my phone and got the "green screen of death." It was a very stressful 12 hours until I could get the screen replaced, and I couldn't do ANYTHING on it until then. We also have a lot of financial stress right now. God has been providing, though, and we've never missed a payment on anything, PTL.

Lihat Kalender Diet, 24 Februari 2024:
2906 kkal Lemak: 126,78g | Prot: 106,36g | Karb: 340,66g.   Makan Pagi: Thomas' Original English Muffins, Smucker's Strawberry Preserves, Jif Extra Crunchy Peanut Butter, King's Hawaiian Hawaiian Sweet Rolls, Land O'Lakes Salted Butter. Makan Siang: Lean Cuisine Comfort Meatloaf with Mashed Potatoes, Pecan Nuts , Activia Black Cherry Yogurt. Makan Malam: Land O'Lakes Salted Butter, King's Hawaiian Hawaiian Sweet Rolls, Lean Cuisine Comfort Herb Roasted Chicken . Camilan/Lainnya: Land O'Lakes Salted Butter, Jason's Deli Banana Nut Muffin, TAPIOCA PUDDING. lagi...

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So glad to hear things are going in a better direction. I hope your health follows. 
24 Feb 24 oleh anggota: moko 13
So glad that things have calmed down with your daughter. I think you did an excellent job of compromising. So glad yo see you have switched to caffeine free A&W!!! A much better option than all of that caffeine and sugar. I am really proud of you, Debbie! I hope everything calms down in the rest of your life too. Hugs.  
24 Feb 24 oleh anggota: -MorticiaAddams
So glad things in your life are improving. I hope your daughter will abide by the things she has agreed to. Time will tell, she has agreed in the past and then renegged on the deal. Hopefully she has realized you hold the winning cards. If she doesn't stay within the guidelines you must continue to be firm. Hugs. 
24 Feb 24 oleh anggota: rhontique
Prayers 🙏🙏 negotiation went well and will stay in force. Hang in there better days ahead. 
25 Feb 24 oleh anggota: cmj29
I'm so sorry that you are under so much stress, and have to go through all this. It's good that things are better but you will have to hold the line. When she gets upset or mad, she'll probably test you. Much love. 
25 Feb 24 oleh anggota: Snowwhite100
Your a better person than alot of us. Prayers for you Ms. Debby. I agree you must stay firm with your daughter. I know it's tough, but it seems like your daughter may need tough love. My sister in law when her son acted up threw all his belongings on the street corner and kicked him out of the house. After 5 months of living on the street, his behavior change. He eventually got his act together. I know every situation is different.  
26 Feb 24 oleh anggota: Maine coon

     
 

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